God made sex to be a beautiful thing between a man and a woman and He intended it to be in marriage. When Adam saw Eve for the first time he said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man Genesis 2:23. Marriage is for life, for God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16 “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, but the only time that He permits divorce is if there has been infidelity Matthew 19:9. What we are now seeing in our world is the total opposite of what God intended marriages to be. Sex has been commercialised to the fullest, right now the devil and his agents are all out to make sex as casual as possible. Young people no longer have relationships which lead to marriage, but they have ‘sex mates,’ yes I will go there, you come, you bang and you go your separate ways like nothing ever happened, no emotions no feelings, no nothing! People meet on the first date, go out, and by the end of the evening ya’al have already had sex, unprotected! In the heat of the moment you didn’t care of the consequences, you didn’t care about the diseases, all that mattered was to quench your ‘thirst.’ Where are we headed? Having sex with multiple partners is the ‘cool’ thing to do, you have your boyfriend whom you claim to love very much, but on the other hand you have a married man to support you financially while sleeping with you. Young men, who have girlfriends, but have older rich women with whom they sleep around with.
What people don’t realise is that, this “don’t care attitude” and this “easiness” is all from the devil. The devil has always rebelled from the beginning and that’s why he was kicked out of Heaven, because he wanted to become just like God. He is rebellious, a lier, manipulative and he wants everyone in the world to become just like him, unfortunately, we are being dragged into a pit and we have absolutely no idea what is happening to us. Why? because everything evil has been enticed and packaged as the most lovely, beautiful thing that you couldn’t possibly say no! Truth is this, nobody ever died for not having sex, nobody! But people have died, from the results of sex, HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, Syphilis and other sex related diseases. Unwanted pregnancies that have resulted in abortions, babies have died and mothers have also died at the table while under going the abortions, they term it “my body my choice.” Your body, your choice, YES, but you have just stopped a heart from beating, you have committed MURDER of an innocent child who did not write an invitation letter to be born, but whom was made in the ‘heat’ of your unplanned, unprotected, ungodly sexual fantasies.
We need to wake up and smell this coffee that has been brewed by the devil and his demons. It isn’t sweet smelling, its filthy, its dirty. He wants as many people as he can take to go to hell, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth, remember, “not all that glitters is gold.” Yes we all make mistakes, yes we are human, but when you make a mistake and realise it, then ask for forgiveness of your sins, from the one who forgives and forgets of all our iniquities. He washes us with His Blood, which was poured out for all and makes us white as snow. You don’t have to die in your sins, no, come to Jesus, He is the way, the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through Him. Married folks, your partners is all you need, stay in your marriage as God intended it to be, single folks, wait until you get married, and remember nobody ever died for not having sex!